No matter how much we thought we understand what’s going on we’d still jump into the wrong conclusion and get ourselves hurt. Next time when we are in this position, there is no harm in taking a step back and turn things around into something that won’t hurt. Pain in certain but suffering is optional.
Most of the time we choose to fight when the only problem was we speak different language and we refuse to translate each other. If only we take the time to do translations we’d be surprise how we escape unnecessary pain.